Find My Match

Personal matchmaking, thoughtfully done

Matched with more in mind.

Thoughtful introductions for people who want more than another swipe. Find My Match brings personal insight, genuine care and curated opportunities together to help you meet someone worth meeting.

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Thoughtful introductions. Real connections. Lasting possibilities.

Find My Match — Matched with more in mind

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Ready for something more considered?

Take the first step with a private, no-pressure conversation about what you are looking for and whether Find My Match may be right for you.

Contact Find My Match:

matchme@fmm.nz

Your enquiry will be treated thoughtfully and discreetly.

Send an enquiry

Complete the form and we will respond as soon as we reasonably can.

Please do not include highly sensitive personal or financial information in your initial message.

Why Find My Match

More personal. More thoughtful. More human.

Genuine compatibility is about more than a photograph or a list of interests. It is about values, communication, relationship intentions and how two lives may fit together.

Thoughtful discovery

We get to know the person behind the profile, including what you value, what you have learnt and what you hope to build.

Human judgement

Personal insight and careful consideration guide each potential introduction. You remain in control at every stage.

Clarity and support

We explain the process, set realistic expectations and provide thoughtful guidance before and after an introduction.

The journey

How Find My Match works

The process begins with a private, no-pressure conversation and progresses only when you feel comfortable.

  1. Tell us what matters

    Share your intentions, preferences, lifestyle and the kind of relationship you would like to create.

  2. Let us get to know you

    A personal conversation helps us understand your story, values and what compatibility means to you.

  3. Consider an introduction

    Potential introductions are reviewed thoughtfully and discussed with both people before personal details are shared.

  4. Meet with support

    Meet in a comfortable setting, share feedback and decide what you would like to do next.

Quality over quantity

Not another dating app

Find My Match is designed for people who value discretion, meaningful conversation and a more considered approach to meeting someone.

  • Personal, human-led conversations.
  • Thoughtful introductions rather than endless profiles.
  • Consent before personal information is shared.
  • Clear guidance and realistic expectations.
  • Curated opportunities to connect in person.
The goal is not to meet the most people. It is to create a genuine opportunity to meet someone worth meeting.

Clear pricing, at your pace

Free registration - $0

Join our growing community and hear about Small Plates Speed Dates, mix-and-mingle events and other opportunities. There is no commitment to paid matchmaking.

Register free

In-depth discussion and profile - NZ$97.75 including GST

NZ$85 plus GST. A personal discussion to understand you and what you are looking for, and build a fuller profile to consider alongside potential matches.

Mutually agreed introduction - NZ$57.50 including GST per person

NZ$50 plus GST per person, for each introduction. We speak with both people and obtain permission before sharing personal details.

Payable only when both people agree. If either declines, neither pays an introduction fee.

Check each event listing for its details and any ticket price. Introductions do not guarantee a relationship.

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Curated connections

Meet someone worth meeting.

Small Plates Speed Dates is an active part of Find My Match, with two more groups coming up. It is one example of the ways we bring people together.

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Relaxed, thoughtfully curated events for people who value genuine conversation, shared experiences and real-world connection.

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  • Welcoming settings
    Comfortable environments chosen to make conversation feel natural.
  • Purposeful curation
    Events created for people interested in genuine connection.
  • No forced chemistry
    Come as you are, enjoy the experience and let conversation unfold.

Privacy and discretion

Your information is personal.

Personal profiles, private applications and contact information are not intended for public display. Potential introductions are discussed privately, and personal information is shared only with appropriate consent.

Helpful answers

Frequently asked questions

What is Find My Match?

Find My Match is a human-led personal matchmaking and curated events service for adults seeking genuine relationships in New Zealand.

Is Find My Match a dating app?

No. Find My Match is a personal matchmaking and curated events service. Human conversation, judgement and consent remain central to every introduction.

How are introductions selected?

Potential introductions are considered using each person’s stated intentions, preferences, values and circumstances. An introduction is discussed with both people before personal details are shared.

Will my information appear publicly?

FMM is designed around discretion. Personal profiles, contact information and private application details should not appear on public website pages or in search results.

Does Find My Match guarantee a relationship?

No matchmaking service can guarantee attraction or a relationship. FMM creates thoughtful opportunities to meet compatible people and provides personal support throughout the process.

How do I begin?

Start with a private, no-pressure conversation. Email matchme@fmm.nz to discuss what you are looking for and whether Find My Match may be right for you.

Privacy

Privacy information

Find My Match respects the personal and sensitive nature of matchmaking enquiries.

  • Information submitted through this page is used to respond to your enquiry.
  • Private member information should not be published on publicly searchable pages.
  • Personal details should only be shared with an appropriate legal basis and, where relevant, clear consent.
  • Do not include highly sensitive personal or financial information in an initial email.
  • You may ask what information is held about you or request a correction by emailing matchme@fmm.nz.

Accessibility

Accessibility statement

Find My Match aims to make this website usable for as many people as possible.

  • The page supports keyboard navigation and visible focus states.
  • Headings and page regions use a logical semantic structure.
  • Form fields have visible labels and clear instructions.
  • Text is designed for comfortable reading and responsive display.
  • Motion is reduced for visitors who have enabled reduced-motion preferences.
  • Accessibility difficulties can be reported to matchme@fmm.nz .